You get excuses from your mother.
Your solutions are your own.
You are not a prisoner of your genetics. Unless you want to be.
Do you want your child to be shackled by the same excuse?
It is not an easy life, being overweight. Especially when there seems no upper limited to how high you can go.
And, whatever you may say to yourself about your own weight, you know you don’t want the same thing for your children.
The “battle” for permanent weight loss
The difficulty is figuring out what to do – how to lose weight and keep it off permanently. There is a reason it is often referred to as a “battle with excess weight.”
The first key point here is that while your genetics may work against you, because you may seem to be losing that “battle,” it is not the fault of your character, nor your willpower, nor your restraint.
The second key point is that what you “know” is what is causing your on-again, off-again weight loss. “The “fat” is between your ears. Lose that, and you’ll lose weight steadily.
How do you do that? Well, it may be as easy as doing the opposite of what you “know”. While I don’t advocate that, it certainly can’t cause you more harm than has already been inflicted on you by the plethora of bad information you presently hold in your head.
No quick solutions to permanent weight loss
There are no quick solutions here – but there are real ones. Solutions grounded in science. Not some “secret” that has finally been revealed to the world by a self-styled guru, no matter how thin they may be now, nor how much they used to weigh.
The human body is an amazing miracle. The solution to permanent weight loss is to work with the body, not to try to trick it into short-term weight loss. The body will always respond to that by making you gain it back, plus some. Is that what you want?
If all you want is to drop a dress size or two for a special occasion, then there are certainly 101 ways to do that. The Internet is stuffed full of them.
If you want something more lasting, if you want to win the weight “battle” one last time, and then retire from the “war,” you are going to have to be a lot more selective in how you choose to lose weight. No miracle herb, tea, food, or exercise is going to deliver what you want.
Nearly every commercial weight loss program is based on one scientific fallacy or another. Just because so many may sound similar doesn’t make any of them correct.
The biggest weight loss fallacy – Low calorie diets
One glaring key fallacy: Low calorie diets.
Whether it is Weight Watchers, Jenny Craig, NutriSystem, HCG, or African bush beans, nearly all are engineered to have you lower your calorie intake to very low levels. You will lose weight every time you do that – it doesn’t really matter what program you chose. But, you will also pay the price with additional weight later. Low calories diets are ticking “weight bombs.” Is it any wonder that these companies all thrive on repeat customers? Where is the “permanent” in “repeat”?
Which leads us back to you being a prisoner of your genetics. Unlike other wars, being confined within the prison of excess weight is a choice. You can choose to surrender and give up. Most of us, at one time or another, have felt that way… war-weary, perhaps you have felt that way for many years.
But you can break free of the prison bequeathed you in your genes. You can lay down the weapons of war, and walk away, free. Because that long-sought permanent solution is equally encoded into your genes. To take advantage of that, you will have to make a U-turn at the bottom of the hill. And that is the subject of my next article.
“Mom was big?”
You don’t have to be.
Does saying your mother was big really make your day lighter?
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